This post was originally shared at the Mastodon instance, Mastobate, and is re-shared here because nearly all men who attend JO clubs love masturbation (solosex), and acknowledging that what happens at jack-off clubs is a lot more than solosex, that non-penetrative sex is 100% partner- and group-sex and qualitatively different from solosex masturbation.
#IMasturbateBecause
… I have any contact with or reference to my penis, and thereby remember what it can do. Just recalling what a source of pleasure it is capable of being is enough to spark interest in masturbating. That can be nothing more than seeing or hearing the word, “penis.” That’s how available I am to starting down the road to masturbation. It can be just taking a piss with any amount of attention (I can piss absentmindedly, like anyone can, but if I only notice the sensation in my head as the urine leaves me, that’s enough to start me down the road to masturbation).
For some reason I don’t remember, I established an early childhood sense of positivity around masturbation. I was 9 when I first ejaculated and I do remember an intense sense of wonder and new self-possession. From that day forward, I just decided that this was an entirely good thing and that I could choose to enjoy it if I wanted to (propriety permitting, of course). I just took in the knowledge that I could say “yes” to this, that it was mine to enjoy.
Of course I have a vast array of triggers, like anyone. Lots of things get me horny and I love being horny almost more than I love sex itself. I am horny waiting to happen.
You are welcome to continue the conversation by offering your own masturbation triggers below in the comments.
I ‘bate because orgasm and ejaculation is a primal, sanity-preserving and health necessity. It is something you can do for yourself, without the worry of being “just right” pleasing a partner (even if by video). Sex with a partner can be quite good, but sometimes a little ‘selfishness’ is mentally helpful & preferable.
I regularly participate in a JO club, also. A significant part of my interest there is seeing – and actively helping – other guys experience something akin to the deep pleasure I feel. It is also good fuel for my own ‘bate, proceeding to a solo orgasm about 50% of these visits. (I must state, however, that caresses, nip play, ball tickling, kisses, etc. while I’m stroking still meet my definition of “solo bate”.)
The other 50% of the time I spend sharing jacking, frot, kissing, etc. MOSTLY with guys I’ve developed a rapport with over numerous meetups. That sharing of ourselves is also highly satisfying. A small portion of each club meetup time is also spent ‘cruising’ for potential new buddies.
So: definitely a good mix.